That old "If you don't have anything good to say, don't say anything at all."

If I can manage that... If I can manage to look at another person and tolerate, even love that imperfect human... unconditionally...

A fault is just another human trait, after all. A person's fault (physical fault, bad taste in music, anything really), just like a person's good habits, good looks,or any other strength, should be another reason to love a person. No one is perfect, and as for me, the person who judges others for not being perfect--

Actually, when I manage to avoid judging the imperfect, maybe I'll be able to stop judging myself as well.